SOCIAL MEDIA TIPS FOR PARENTS
Navigating the online world with our kids can be super tough for parents. Knowing what apps are appropriate, managing screen time, and addressing the issues that come with social media use can be complex to say the least. Schools and families play a collaborative role in ensuring that kids can access the internet in a safe and healthy way. Below are some top tips from Rebecca Sparrow, who works with students, schools and is a member of the Queensland Government’s Anti-Bullying Taskforce.
BEFORE YOU HIT SEND – SOCIAL MEDIA TIPS FOR PARENTS
By: Rebecca Sparrow
STEP 1. BASIC ONLINE DO’S & DONT’S
- Don’t use your child’s photo or real name when setting up apps or certain social media accounts.
- Don’t accept friend requests from people you don’t know in real life.
- Don’t agree to meet up with people you don’t know in real life.
- Don’t chat to randoms online – even if you think they’re kids. Social media and gaming apps are stalked by adult predators looking for children to groom.
- Don’t give out your address, school or phone number online to anyone. And don’t share your passwords!
- Most importantly – check the privacy settingson the platform or app you are using (see tips below)
- Follow Susan McLean– Cyber Safety Expert, Dr Kirsty Goodwin – Cyber Safety Expert and Code9 Parent on Facebook to get regular updates on the latest dangerous and dodgy apps and safety tips for your tech devices.
STEP 2. SECURE YOUR DEVICES
- You want to stop strangers from finding out where you live, work or go to school which they can easily do from the photos and videos you post. Turn off Geo-Tagging on your camera. Otherwise, geographical information is added in the form of metadata to photos, videos, SMS, websites. Go to LOCATION SERVICES and turn it off for your camera and any apps that don’t need it.
- TURN OFF Frequent Locationswhich can tell anyone who picks up your phone where you live.
- If your device gets stolen or your friends decide to play a prank by hacking your account you want to be able to stop them from accessing your device! Have a pin number on all your devices. And don’t tell your friends your pin numbers or log in details.
- Again to stop people accessing your accounts – set up Two-Step Verification On Accounts: Facebook: Account > Settings > Security > Login Approvals Apple Google Twitter
- Set up restricted viewing on Google, YouTube, your Mac or PC.
- For younger kids (10 and under) Use YouTube Kids, Kiddleor Safe Search Kids (powered by Google). Remember: no amount of net filtering replaces parent supervision!
USEFUL LINKS
Social Media Platform Safety Centres: FULL LIST of contacts
FACEBOOK: Basic Privacy Settings and How Can I See What My Facebook Profile Looks Like To Other People? YOUTUBE TUTORIAL
INSTAGRAM: Privacy & Safety Tips for Instagram
SAFE SEARCH ENGINES FOR KIDS: YouTube Kids, Kiddle, Safe Search Kids
Who’s Chatting to Your Kids?: https://www.police.qld.gov.au/policelink-reporting/reporting-cybercrime/children-and-the-internet/whos-chatting-to-your-kids
The advantages of helping kids navigate the digital world – The Atlantic
15 Useful iPhone Hacks including setting ‘Do Not Disturb’ on your phone so you can’t receive messages while you’re studying
More iPhone hacks including getting more storage
How to save data on your iPhone: the small hack that can make a difference to your data use.
USEFUL APPS
HELP ME The Denise and Bruce Morcombe Safety App. Download this app for 99cents and any person can call for help at the push of a button. “The ‘Help Me’ button sounds a warning and allows you to send off an SMS text to two (2) nominated ‘safety’ numbers, as part of your Trusted Safety Network. Included in the text are GPS co-ordinates from where the text was sent, so the sender can be located or a last known place of contact is indicated.”
OurPact Free parental control app that limits screen time and access to apps and sites.
Colour Therapy Popular free colouring-in app
Canvsly: a clever app to help you digitally store your children’s artwork
YOUR DIGITAL FOOTPRINT
Set up a Google Alert for your name and email address so you can keep track about what’s said about you on-line.
The resume is dead: your next click might determine your next job – The Guardian
Your digital footprint matters – Huffington Post
CYBERBULLYING
The most important thing to remember if you are being cyberbullied is that you’re not alone and there are adults who can help you.
Keep evidence of the bullying (save emails, take screenshots of messages or posts), delete and block the bully and report the problem to the Safety Centre of the platform or app (you can find a full list here). And most importantly tell an adult you trust. And keep telling adults until someone does something to help you.
Office of the eSafety Commissioner
How To Take A Screenshot On Any Device
Report Cyberbullying: Office of the Children’s eSafety Commissioner
Legal Aid Queensland: Laws surrounding cyber-bullying and what to do about it.
The National Children’s and Youth Law Centre, can provide free legal advice for anyone under 18, or anyone acting on their behalf.
Bullying No Way website for kids, teens, parents and teachers
HOUSEHOLD INTERNET AGREEMENT / PARENTAL CONTROL APPS
FREE OurPact parental control app that limits screen time by blocking internet and app access.
How To Find Hidden Apps on Your Child’s Phone
RESOURCES FOR YOUR TEEN WHEN THEY NEED HELP
Headspace: National youth mental health foundation
Kids Helpline or call 1800 551 800
Parentline: 1300 30 1300 www.parentline.com.au
Lifeline: 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au
Relationships Australia: 130 364 277 www.relationships.org.au
1800Respect Online: 1800 737 732 www.1800respect.org.au
Child Safety Services (Qld): 1800 177 135